Being “LOVE”

“1950 1960 1970 1980 1990 2000 – 2018 –
Timeline of “LOVE” or LOVE breaking over decades and what that looks like. What we can do to lift LOVE again. Will y’all help me?

1950 1960 1970 1980 1990 2000 – 2018 – ?

1950 was the time of anticipation, smitten courting romance, twitterpation, excitement, patience, bonding, and the growth for relationships through companionship!  One of the most valuable aspects that had been lost and forgotten is, within the home indoctrination before “general public” forced by conformity; public education

Indoctrination ~ in home study of arts, music, language, cooking, sewing,                     professionalism; Training to be a reputable lady and skilled gentleman, fencing, hunting,  fishing, carpentry, business, all for a greater understanding etc.  

Education ~ General public in school education for basic knowledge.

The 1950’s, as well as previous generations were built on family foundation. Empires were built by a Uni’Verse’All together bond by HONOR. This was a reflection, of deep rooted CARE! Care to honor one another in all relationships. Women were ladies, Men were gentlemen. The courting process was beautiful, romantic, built on “taking the time and care enough to (understand) one another.” Sexual relations I’m sure were a thought, however it was left out of the equation and expectation. Mothers and Fathers were included in a suitable man being their daughters winning choice ! During courting, couples truly valued their time “getting to understand” one another, which go’s way beyond “getting to know” someone!

“I CARE enough to understand what it is to LOVE YOU!”

I invite you when speaking to a loved one to say; I CARE FOR YOU instead of I LOVE YOU! This brings much value into what we are wanting to relay!

Now let’s move forward in time a bit, into the 1960’s, where in just a short period of time, between 1950 and 1960 the value of LOVE will begin to break. Between 1960 & 1970 LOVE became FREE; (Free LOVE Man)! There will be public sex, orgies, rebellion, family breaks, courting is transparent, sex is an expectation, getting to know someone is free, and CARE is invisible. Today, in 2018 people are instant in the exchange of LOVE, even to go as far as telling strangers, I LOVE YOU. Not to demean any truth in that statement because I believe everyone believes in LOVING strangers, and in no way, is that strange! However would you agree, that lifting LOVE back up by saying, I CARE FOR YOU (enough to understand how to LOVE you) could bring value into the fortune of LOVE?

Sincerely, Miss’Understood  * Bella The BOLD

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Author: Vanisha'Bella

Vanisha’Bella Izzarelli is a dynamic coach that inspires her clients to discover their own authentic reality. She guides them on a journey of acceptance, appreciation, and true peace using techniques that she has perfected over her own personal path and through years of mentoring. As a widow who survived the passing of several family members in a very short time period, Vanisha’Bella understands the realities of enduring true tragedy in life and then embracing the light beyond that. Her experiences have lead her to reach into the hardest parts of her clients’ experiences with true empathy. She is particularly skilled at deconstructing false walls and helping people move past their unhealthy defense mechanisms to embrace their (authentic reality) true self. To do this she developed a unique mirror image technique that guides clients to discovering, accepting, and embracing their whole self.

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