👁‍🗨 Judgement

What is judgment all about, where did it come from and why, in one way or another does opinion and judgement live within almost every topic, conversation, the meeting of someone new, just naturally consume so much possibility !? Find out !

Judgement  !!  Let’s not….

We’ve all had the feeling of, being the odd one out, right? Let’s talk about why that is. Is it caused by our own view of ourselves? That is possible, although uncomfortable judgement go’s way beyond you and I. Beyond our parents, our generation. Shoot the misunderstanding of awkward judgement set so far back in a time when we were not born, our parents weren’t born. As a matter of fact, no one we know was yet alive.

We could go on and on in predefined topics, ranging from Fraud, Shakespeare, to some of the most influential psychological minds known. I rather understand and share understanding as to how each and every one of us can come to validate ourselves by understanding “ourselves”. An understanding so divine and correct there is no need for other insightful theory. There is no other who can understand you, better than you. The only missing key is how; “How can I come to understand me and myself?” “How can I understand things about not only me, but my parents?” Allow me to shine a light on one of the most vital key points to understanding…

You may be familiar with my quote, Attention…

“PAY” Attention for Attention to be “PAID” 

If you notice, PAID is in “Attention” as an investment, think of it like money. Your attention to detail referring to your investment, you will be in great detail. If you are wanting to invest to gain capital there needs to be strategy. (attention to every detail). You might be thinking, I don’t have time for that! When you find out what has proven to be the most divine source for understanding the why’s, what’s, how’s in’s and out’s; You will enjoy living life more than ever!   

We are NOT designed to be COPIES of “EACH OTHER”, doing the SAME, jobs, techniques, opinions, justify being programmed with set guidelines. NO No❗️‼️❗️Give yourself a chance to Understand, Be Fearless, If you feel like you can’t, I’ll support you! When you understand yourself 111% we will celebrate 🎉

Being all there is of me that is,

  • different
  • unique
  • odd
  • far out
  • strange
  • weird

Oh yes, I mustn’t leave out my favorite reference of all : Suigeneris. (suigeneris, however, is personal)  As judgement has it, I’ve been said to be, “Unrelatable” by the, common standard of, whats acceptable.  

“Fitting In”

  • We as humanity “Human’Unity” Are NOT designed to JUDGE 1 Another;
  • Instead we should Support and BELIEVE in 1 Another


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Author: Vanisha'Bella

Vanisha’Bella Izzarelli is a dynamic coach that inspires her clients to discover their own authentic reality. She guides them on a journey of acceptance, appreciation, and true peace using techniques that she has perfected over her own personal path and through years of mentoring. As a widow who survived the passing of several family members in a very short time period, Vanisha’Bella understands the realities of enduring true tragedy in life and then embracing the light beyond that. Her experiences have lead her to reach into the hardest parts of her clients’ experiences with true empathy. She is particularly skilled at deconstructing false walls and helping people move past their unhealthy defense mechanisms to embrace their (authentic reality) true self. To do this she developed a unique mirror image technique that guides clients to discovering, accepting, and embracing their whole self.

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